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My Story

See...here is the deal. I'm funny, pretty cool and all around people want to be around me. Here is the other part of that deal...I'm awkward af! 

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I'm awkward when it comes to dating

I'm awkward when it comes to social settings

I'm awkward when it comes...well everything.

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But I am on this amazing journey of traveling, self discovery, dating, sex, romance, race, hair journeys (its a thing), stories of childhood trauma and healing, dating in Phoenix, being a single mom and so much more bat shit crazy shit.

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Join me as I take you on this awkwardly ride of me becoming sexy, loving my own skin, getting my tummy down and doing it all awkwardly and being black, of course.

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"You either take control of your life or it takes control of you. It’s that simple."

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